After 5 years of playing music together, Wes, Brad, John and I have decided to bid farewell to the second rendition of our band, The Throws.
Each of us has a lack of motivation to invest the time and energy necessary to make a band work. We have all felt this way since the beginning of the fall, but it wasn’t mentioned until last night at our annual “let’s make some plans and do something this year” meeting. This is when it was made clear that individually, not one of us actually had any plans for this band for the upcoming year.
I was very relieved when this all came out. A lot is changing in my life right now. I finally graduated from college, I’m looking for another job, and I’m getting married. I have taken the last month or so to evaluate my life as it is, and what changes I would like to make in order to be who I want to be and where I want to be in life. Part of this thinking was that I needed to remove myself from any situations that my heart wasn’t fully a part of - which is where The Throws came into mind.
A few weeks ago, in the middle of my ‘quarter life evaluation’, I was hanging out with Meredith, and we were contently sitting next to each other, enjoying a lull in our day. After long period of silence and serious thought on my part, I suddenly blurted out, “I think I’m going to quit the band.” This was the first time that I admitted to myself out loud that it just wasn’t working out anymore. I knew I wasn’t putting much in to it and that my talents would be better used in a different situation than what I was currently in.
Fortunately I didn’t really have to ‘quit’ since we were all on the same page about it coming to an end.
Any musician will tell you how important relationships are in a band. We all know each other better than anyone else except for our significant other. Knowing each other so well is crucial to being solid and confident on stage, and is the one thing that will be hard to accomplish when starting something new.
I don’t have any plans to pursue another band right now, but I am hoping that an opportunity will come fairly soon.
Many of you know of our previous band, Echosflow (same members, plus Luke), which played our farewell show in February of 2006. This is where I really honed my skills as a drummer and realized my potential. We were able to travel all over the country playing music, and I’ve been places and done things that I would never have done without being in Echosflow or The Throws. As the cliche says, “I wouldn’t be where I am today without ‘em.”
I am thankful for everyone, including my family, friends, other bands, and most importantly God for supporting what I have done in the last half-decade with these bands. It’s a bittersweet end, having to let go of something I’ve been a part of for so long, yet knowing that there is probably something great coming in the future.
On a lighter note, we recorded 7 or 8 songs in an extremely nice studio last October, and it is definitely the most solid and best sounding music we have ever created. We still plan on mixing and mastering the tracks and will probably just burn some copies to keep for ourselves and to give to our friends. So let me know if you’s guys want one!
There was a brief discussion about playing a farewell show, but nothing is set in stone, and we’re not sure if we are going to do it. I’ll keep everyone posted.
Echosflow on MySpace
The Throws on MySpace